Is is as if life or reality itself has had it in mind all along to unravel the very design i have been trying all along to impose on it.
When we are anxiously attached, our inability to trust the intentions and behaviors of others will often lead us to escalate situations and then reject attempts to reassure us. It is a painful and dramatic spiral.
Awakening Hope. A Developmental, Behavioral, Biological Approach to Codependency Treatment.
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When we are anxiously attached, our inability to trust the intentions and behaviors of others will often lead us to escalate situations and then reject attempts to reassure us. It is a painful and dramatic spiral.
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