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From the standpoint of integrity, I think we all need to own up to our dirty little secrets. I believe that when we are open about our own strange desires or unusual lives, it paves the way for others to do the same. In the past thirty years, gay men and lesbians took a lot of flack to tell the truth about their love lives and their courage opened the door for a mass migration out of the closet. We__e now at a moment in time when unconventional families (even thirty-year triads and gay couples) are losing their children in custody battles because their families don__ conform to mainstream ideas about what a family should be. Given this context, I want to be someone who stands up for my choices even if they__e unpopular, even if I get snickers at cocktail parties.
Victoria Vantoch The Threesome Handbook: Make the Most of Your Favorite Fantasy - the Ultimate Guide for Tri-Curious Singles and Couples
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From the standpoint of integrity, I think we all need to own up to our dirty little secrets. I believe that when we are open about our own strange desires or unusual lives, it paves the way for others to do the same. In the past thirty years, gay men and lesbians took a lot of flack to tell the truth about their love lives and their courage opened the door for a mass migration out of the closet. We__e now at a moment in time when unconventional families (even thirty-year triads and gay couples) are losing their children in custody battles because their families don__ conform to mainstream ideas about what a family should be. Given this context, I want to be someone who stands up for my choices even if they__e unpopular, even if I get snickers at cocktail parties.
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