Faith is one of only two things in mankind's consciousness that defies discussion. The other is one's marriage.
Marriage, in what is evidently its most popular version, is now on the one hand an intimate __elationship_ involving (ideally) two successful careerists in the same bed, and on the other hand a sort of private political system in which rights and interests must be constantly asserted and defended. Marriage, in other words, has now taken the form of divorce: a prolonged and impassioned negotiation as to how things shall be divided. During their understandably temporary association, the __arried_ couple will typically consume a large quantity of merchandise and a large portion of each other.
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Marriage, in what is evidently its most popular version, is now on the one hand an intimate __elationship_ involving (ideally) two successful careerists in the same bed, and on the other hand a sort of private political system in which rights and interests must be constantly asserted and defended. Marriage, in other words, has now taken the form of divorce: a prolonged and impassioned negotiation as to how things shall be divided. During their understandably temporary association, the __arried_ couple will typically consume a large quantity of merchandise and a large portion of each other.
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