Pray for God__ grace to nurture on the inside what He calls us to live out on the outside.

No matter what happens in the outside world, as long as you have faith in yourself, no darkness can touch you!

People that have a police car behind them pulling them over should put on their hazard lights and continue slowly driving to the nearest densely populated public place, such as a supermarket or shopping center. Pull over outside the busy entrance and start your video camera. Inform the police officer that you are video recording and very slowly give the requested documentation. Exercise your legal right to silence while the many independent witnesses video record the unexpected stop that rudely interrupts your day. If you are given a ticket, choose to go to court. It will give you time to obtain independent legal advice about the allegation.

If you had a friend you refused to talk to, eventually you couldn't keep calling that person a friend anymore.

But most of those to whom Ender's Game feels most important are those who, like me, feel themselves to be perpetually outside their most beloved communities, never able to come inside and feel confident of belonging.

By stepping outside your comfort zone to do something peculiar, you confirm that you can do more than you've done. Move out!