closure

Arrogance is someone claiming to have come to Christ, but they won't spend more than five minutes listening to your journey because they are more concerned about their own well being, rather than being a true disciple of Christ. Blessed is the person that takes the time to heal and hear another person so they can move on.

Time doesn't heal all wounds, only distance can lessen the sting of them.

Every broken heart has screamed at one time or another, "I want to know why!

Closure /kl_ZH_r/ Noun1. The thing women tell you what they want, but secretly they really want you to tell them why you don__ want them again, so they can try one last time to convince you that you were wrong. 2. The warped mentality that having someone tell you honestly why they don__ want you is going to somehow make you feel peace, so you can move on.3. The neat packaging of finishing conversations because you have been stewing over it insecurely about the length of what a stalker does. 4. The one thing women don__ give themselves because if they didn__ care about the jerk they wouldn__ still be hanging onto another conversation that tells them what they already know: He just isn__ that interested in you.5. The anal retentive art of perfecting every ending with meaning, rather than just excepting you went through something rather sucky and he doesn__ care.6. The act of closing something with someone, when in reality you should slam the door.

Sometimes the door closes on a relationship, not because we failed but because something bigger than us says this no longer fits our life. So, lock the door, shed a tear, turn around and look for the new door that's opened. It's a sign that you're no longer that person you were, it's time to change into who you are. It's going to be okay.

In the spirit of the Alpha and the Omega, in the way the Alpha was theOmega, and vice versa, he knew the beginning was also the end__nd that the end was just another beginning.

I realize that not everyone could be granted the chance of getting a decent closure _ most people just deal with the decisions they made then on their own.

Most people believe the journey they begin with Christ goes forward, but that is not how he works. A spiritual life is not cutting ties with people, in order to walk clean in the future. The journey home isn't running away from obstacles. It is learning to stand where you are now and handle people, assert yourself, set boundaries and never feel your happiness is dependent on another person's approval of your choices, beliefs or spiritual needs.

It's because the door hasn't been closed yet that the nightmares still find their way in.

You do what you have to do to give people closure; it makes them feel better and it doesn__ cost you much to do it. I__ rather apologize for something I didn__ really care about, and leave someone on Earth wishing me well, than to be stubborn and have that someone hoping that some alien would slurp out my brains. Call it karmic insurance.

That__ the hope, isn__ it? To see your family in your time of dying.

Like time suspended, a wound unmended-- you and I. We had no ending, no said goodbye; For all my life, I'll wonder why.

I couldn't help but suspect something he'd seen or encountered had changed his view of what had happened between them. It had somehow set him free. And he'd let it fly, that gorgeous blackbird of a love he'd been keeping in a cage. What was it like for him, every day standing outside in the wind and rain to stare at the ocean, yearning for some sign of her, never giving up hope? At The Peak perhaps she'd finally come into view, a ship coming neither toward him nor away, only riding that perfect line between heaven and earth, long enough for him to know that she had loved him, that what they had was real, before slipping out of sight, probably forever.

Peace is the way, not the destination.

Nothing changes until people decide to do the things they must, in order to bring about peace.