mindset-quotes

The difference between a positive attitude and a negative attitude can be measured by its level of energy, both inwardly and outwardly.

Ask anyone who has ever fallen in love at first sight and they will tell you__heir mutual chemistry created an instant attraction. We have all known friends who went on a first date and knew instantly that they would spend the rest of their life with that person. Or, they knew instantly there was no chance because there was no chemistry at all.

Imagine how your positive attitude feels when you are enjoying a fabulous day__he sky is blue, the grass is green, the birds are singing__nd all is right in your world. You are filled with boundless energy and joyful optimism. Life is great! And then . . . you cross the path of an energy vampire whose low vibe and toxic energy drains out every bit of yours__ulling you down.

We prefer to be around others who bring out the best in us and make us feel good, don__ we? Customers want to do business with people who make them feel valued, appreciated, and happy.

We are all wired with a natural propensity to learn, grow, and expand. Think of the positive things that make you happy, bring you joy, deepen your understanding, and make you feel wonderful. These things enlarge and grow with positive energy, don__ they? The opposite is true as well; negative things make us feel stressed, sad, angry, or overwhelmed. They leave us feeling depleted and contracted.

Like everything else in our world, we too are energy. Each one of us is an energy being releasing our own distinctive energy signature that is perceptible to others by way of our choices, perceptions, behaviors, attitudes, and physical cues.

Ask yourself and become more aware__re you . . . _ Speaking poorly of others in judgment, gossip, and intolerance?_ Looking for, dwelling on, and obsessing over the negative?_ Being grumpy, negative, and infecting others with your bad attitude or victim mentality?

The way you walk, talk, stand, and carry yourself sends messages to others that can attract or repel, encourage or discourage, and impress or depress.

The Broaden-and-Build Theory in Positive Psychology suggests that positive emotions initiate upward spirals of positivity which contribute to our optimal well-being. It is no wonder positive people are more likely to make a positive impact!

The "Law of Attraction" simply states: __hat you think about, you bring about._ Whatever you focus on will expand and attract more of the same. Whatever you are putting out there is usually what you are getting back. So, if you don__ like what you__e getting, you__e got to change what you are giving.

ASK YOURSELF: Who are the people you are drawn to who bring out the best in you? How do they make you feel? Is your positive energy doing the same thing for others?

At networking events, I am a heat-seeking missile for happy, vibrant people. With experience and practice, you can develop a sixth sense about whom to approach and of whom to be wary. I'm drawn to people with positive energy. I would rather be lifted up than pulled down. Wouldn__ you?

Throughout your life you will meet thousands of people, but every once in a while, you feel instant chemistry with a person and connect immediately. It is like meeting an old friend or returning home again. Your relationship enjoys easy compatibility and commonality. Not only can you sometimes finish each other__ sentences, but regardless of how much time may pass, you can reunite and start up wherever you left off.

It's a fact. We are magnets who attract whatever we are being. When we emit positive energy, thoughts, feelings, and vibrations, we attract more positives to us. When we emit negative energy, thoughts, feelings, and vibrations, we attract more negatives.

Unfortunately, while people may be considerate with their illness, they often lack the same consideration with their bad attitudes, not thinking twice about spewing their negative energy on everyone around them and making others sick in the process. Talk about making a bad impression, much less setting you up for an unfavorable outcome!

Access your joy within; feel and focus on it, allowing it to expand to fill your entire being.

Your body language continuously communicates for you, whether you are aware of it or not. Are your intended messages being well conveyed?

Energy is contagious and infectious and whether it is the good kind or the bad kind__ther people feel it.