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There are two aspects of man__ existence which are the special province and expression of his sense of life: love and art.I am referring here to romantic love, in the serious meaning of that term__s distinguished from the superficial infatuations of those whose sense of life is devoid of any consistent values, i.e., of any lasting emotions other than fear. Love is a response to values. It is with a person__ sense of life that one falls in love__ith that essential sum, that fundamental stand or way of facing existence, which is the essence of a personality. One falls in love with the embodiment of the values that formed a person__ character, which are reflected in his widest goals or smallest gestures, which create the style of his soul__he individual style of a unique, unrepeatable, irreplaceable consciousness. It is one__ own sense of life that acts as the selector, and responds to what it recognizes as one__ own basic values in the person of another. It is not a matter of professed convictions (though these are not irrelevant); it is a matter of much more profound, conscious and subconscious harmony.Many errors and tragic disillusionments are possible in this process of emotional recognition, since a sense of life, by itself, is not a reliable cognitive guide. And if there are degrees of evil, then one of the most evil consequences of mysticism__n terms of human suffering__s the belief that love is a matter of __he heart,_ not the mind, that love is an emotion independent of reason, that love is blind and impervious to the power of philosophy. Love is the expression of philosophy__f a subconscious philosophical sum__nd, perhaps, no other aspect of human existence needs the conscious power of philosophy quite so desperately. When that power is called upon to verify and support an emotional appraisal, when love is a conscious integration of reason and emotion, of mind and values, then__nd only then__t is the greatest reward of man__ life.