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By acknowledging my impermanence, I can consider if there is anything I can do now to help my loved ones who will be left behind cope with losing me and to facilitate healing.
Lisa J. Shultz A Chance to Say Goodbye: Reflections on Losing a Parent
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By acknowledging my impermanence, I can consider if there is anything I can do now to help my loved ones who will be left behind cope with losing me and to facilitate healing.
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A Chance to Say Goodbye: Reflections on Losing a Parent

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