dealing-with-it

It's the way we deal with what fate hands us that defines who we are.

My lungs filled deep with the sweet scent that came of his skin. it was like there had never been any hole in my chest. i was perfect- not healed but as if there never had been a wound in the first place.

The problems are here to stay. We need to find a way to deal with them.

I'm psychologically equipped for this.

If there__ a single lesson that life teaches us, it__ that wishing doesn't make it so. Words and thoughts don__ change anything. Language and reality are kept strictly apart _ reality is tough, unyielding stuff, and it doesn't care what you think or feel or say about it. Or it shouldn't. You deal with it, and you get on with your life.

Being under stress is like being stranded in a body of water. If you panic, it will cause you to flail around so that the water rushes into your lungs and creates further distress. Yet, by calmly collecting yourself and using controlled breathing you remain afloat with ease.

The greatest win is walking away and choosing not to engage in drama and toxic energy at all.

It is a mark of maturity to deal with the problem rather than suppress it

There are no people who are whole" he says. "Everyone has issues of their own to deal with. Mine might be a little harder, but the main thing is how on deals with them.

God has broken me in every way possible. I spent a year not caring, a year trying to figure out what I'd done to deserve it. and a year trying to make it right.

Getting on with her life is important. But right now it may be more important to put the feelings out there, deal with them, and find a way to be okay with all that's happened.