hurting-others

You can love everyone, but you can never hurt anyone else without hurting yourself. You will burn yourself for the rest of your life with this fire and agony.

When someone is hurt andwe hear ourselves saying"I don't understand, why"PAUSEAt the pause, ask "What am I missing here ?"At the pause, stop judging, stop reacting,get curious and believe their hurt stateAt the pause, tap into their heart and mind.Now see how this pause transforms the conversation.

Grief was dagger-shaped and sharp and pointed inward. It was made of fresh loss and old sorrow. Rendered and forged and sometimes polished. Irene Finney had taken her daughter__ death and to that sorrow she__ added a long life of entitlement and disappointment, of privilege and pride. And the dagger she__ fashioned was taking a brief break from slashing her insides, and was now pointed outward.

When you blame others, what you are really saying is what is inside of you can__ be fixed, so you have no control of your own happiness. Therefore, you have made the conscience choice to give focus and fuel to a bad situation that will take you nowhere and give you nothing, but ignorance and pain.

Before hurting others, feel the pain you will inflict on others.

Whenever you hurt someone, you bring torment into your own life.

How ignorant can you be to hurt another person? You cannot hurt someone else without hurting yourself first.

Never think of hurting anyone else, if you do, you are already hurting yourself.

If you make someone suffer today, without any doubt, you will be punished by your conscience. Don__ hurt anyone in anyway or form.

If someone hurts you, he is hurting himself. He may not be able to escape that hurt in his lifetime.

The more you talk about it, rehash it, rethink it, cross analyze it, debate it, respond to it, get paranoid about it, compete with it, complain about it, immortalize it, cry over it, kick it, defame it, stalk it, gossip about it, pray over it, put it down or dissect its motives it continues to rot in your brain. It is dead. It is over. It is gone. It is done. It is time to bury it because it is smelling up your life and no one wants to be near your rotted corpse of memories and decaying attitude. Be the funeral director of your life and bury that thing!

Anger, resentment and jealousy doesn't change the heart of others-- it only changes yours.

If you kick a lion when it is down, God help you when it gets up.

Learn the truth...never assume.Understand the plight...never judge.Put yourself in someone's shoes...never hurt.Think before you act, reason before you react.

We hurt people, when we give ourselves more value than others.

A divorce is much like a ten-car pile up. It affects not just two drivers but a whole slew of perimeter vehicles that get caught in the chaos. Not even innocent bystanders come out unscathed.