just-be-nice

Being Nice Has Its Limitations. While you will certainly attract more bees with honey, there are times when being nice can backfire. Take it from a naturally kind person, being a __itch_ has its time and place. There will be times when you must engage with mean, rude, and inconsiderate people.

4 Times to Get Tough . . .1. Self-Respect__ou don__ have to take everything on the chin and lose the respect of yourself and others in the process. Don__ be a doormat or a pushover by allowing people to disrespect or run over you. Stand firm in your beliefs and values.2. Self-Preservation__nderstand and set boundaries. Decide what is and what is not acceptable in how people treat you. Claim your power to live life on your terms and not at the whims of others_ unreasonable requests and demands. 3. Protecting others__f you are a parent of a child or a caretaker of the elderly or disabled, it is your moral duty to defend them to the end. 4. Self-Defense__ave you ever felt threatened, unsafe, or abused because of another__ behavior? Assert yourself and do whatever is necessary to ensure your safety. Being kind DOES NOT mean you should excuse such behavior.

It is no mystery why nice people are well-liked and get along harmoniously with others. Being nice makes people feel emotionally safe, allowing for more authentic, trusting, and happy interactions.

Whoever came up with the idea that "nice guys finish last" must have been either very jaded or downright malicious. Why would a caring, emotionally healthy human being ever think that being __n-nice_ is a virtue? Anyone who wants to get ahead in life and have quality outcomes needs to understand that kindness is a strength. You will move forward faster by making friends rather than foes.

When it comes to meeting new people, playing well with others, and connecting on deeper levels, there are inherent gaps which can be closed only by being brave. When is bravery needed?

Benefits of Being Nice _ You set positive karma into motion._ What you give is what you get back in return._ You are more likable._ People will treat you better._ You will reduce personal stress._ You will make friends more easily._ You can improve someone else__ day._ You will have less drama in your life._ It takes less energy than being otherwise._ It makes you a more valuable team player._ You create a sense of emotional safety for others._ It can keep you physically and psychologically safe._ You set a positive example for others to play nicely._ You will build bridges of cooperation and collaboration._ You will improve personal and professional interactions_ Lastly, being nice feels nice!

While you will certainly attract more bees with honey, there are times when being nice can backfire. Take it from a naturally kind person, being a __itch_ has its time and place. There will be times when you must engage with mean, rude, and inconsiderate people.

17 Ways to Just Be Nice__o act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted._ __esop1. Be sincere.2. Be altruistic.3. Practice patience.4. Inquire and engage.5. Keep your promises.6. Offer help to others.7. Acknowledge others.8. Control your behavior.9. Be situationally aware.10. Be polite and courteous.11. Use considerate manners.12. Greet people with a smile. 13. Practice random acts of kindness.14. Show respect for yourself and others.15. Be complimentary and look for positives.16. Walk in another__ shoes to understand their needs.17. Share of yourself without expecting anything in return.

Kindness is a powerful bridge builder which unifies teams, bonds friends, supports loved ones, and spreads goodwill. Tending to your bridges will fortify your relationships in such way that you will keep your invitations coming and your options open for future opportunities.

ASK YOURSELF: Have you found that being nice to some people is simply not effective? When might it be wise to throw down the gauntlet and get tough or confrontational?

Some people not only burn their bridges, but they also torch the town! With all their deeds of drama and destruction, they leave behind an aftermath of distrust, disrespect, and disappointment. And for what? This behavior creates immeasurable suffering in all directions. It ruins reputations and business deals, shatters lives__nd closes doors which can never be re-opened. These repercussions can be prevented or avoided by simply BEING NICE.

Google Proves Nice Counts. On a quest to discover what it takes to build the "perfect team," Google launched the Project Aristotle initiative to find the answers. Over a period of several years, they surveyed hundreds of teams, conducted interviews, analyzed studies, and observed how team members interacted with one another.Google__ findings revealed that "psychological safety" is the key ingredient for creating a high-functioning team. It nurtures a healthy environment that encourages freedom of expression, engaging communication, empathy for one another, caring, support, respect and, drum roll please . . . BEING NICE!