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Mrs. Greene made me understand the parallels between race and caste--- and how women's bodies were used to perpetuate both. Different prisons. Same key.

Don't write when you're angry and under deadline, with time to test it only on friends who know what you mean, not on strangers who don't.

As feminism has changed academia by enlarging what is taught, academia has sometimes changed feminism.

Go," she whispered. "Go. Show them you spell your name W-O-M-A-N.

Everyone has a home but me.

The idea that women are 'our own worst enemies' forces us to admit that we don't have the power to be, even if we wanted too.

Rescuing girls from brothels is the easy part, however. The challenge is keeping them from returning. The stigma that girls feel in their communities after being freed, coupled with drug dependencies or threats from pimps, often lead to return to the re-light district.

Women understand that there are two distinct economies: There is physical attraction, and then there is the __deal._ When a woman looks at a man, she can physically dislike the idea of his height, his coloring, his shape. But after she has liked him and loved him, she would not want him to look any other way: For many women, the body appears to grow beautiful and erotic as they grow to like the person in it. The actual body, the smell, the feel, the voice and movement, becomes charged with heat through the desirable person who animates it. Even Gertrude Stein said of Picasso, __here was nothing especially attractive about him at first sight_but his radiance, an inner fire one sensed in him, gave him a sort of magnetism I was unable to resist._ By the same token, a woman can admire a man as a work of art but lose sexual interest if he turns out to be an idiot.What becomes of the man who acquires a beautiful woman, with her __eauty_ his sole target? He sabotages himself. He has gained no friend, no ally, no mutual trust: She knows quite well why she has been chosen. He has succeeded in buying a mutually suspicious set of insecurities. He does gain something: the esteem of other men who find such an acquisition impressive.