self-honesty

you can tell who you are the way people respond to you.

How I treat my daughter today, is how my daughter will treat you, tomorrow.

Change must start from the individual. And the individual must want and feel ready to make such change.

I feel sorry for people who maintain relationships and friendships detrimental to their mental health. Everyone is guilty of it at one time or another- but the idea is to strive to be your best; right? So, meanwhile why are so many people faking it? Security? Fear of loneliness? Fears of independence? Fears of being self ? Or just the idea that you can make someone change? Regardless of the justifications you give & treat yourself to... , I hope all of you - "new year -new me types" strive for self care , honest and pure friendships and relationships based of love- and not based off the fake realities of your mind. These delusions of what you hope for instead of what's there, where you and your puppet show master focus more on everyone else and less on self. To change the world you must start within. But you must first BE HONEST with yourself. My new year started a few months ago-- and it was the best choice I ever made- and I hope your recreations are progressive and successful in THE NEW YEAR

There are many types of marriage relationships and all of them can work, but none is sadder than the one that doesn't represent peace in your heart.

A girl who travels will need someone that questions her, not too little, and not too much. She__l need someone to read her, but also really listen to her. Because she__l want to do the same. She__l want a person that shares an interest but at the same time stays genuine to who they are. Not drown in a puddle of narcissism. And not drown in a lake of fascination.

We are worth fighting for,_ we both whispered. Giving one another permission, into each other madness.

The truth may hurt, but fooling yourself will enslave you.

I tell lies somewhere else, but not here, not in front of myself.

Oh yes, I am frequently driven to an enraged frenzy by the blatantly crass actions of others. But to be painfully honest, that anger is much less driven by the reality of their actions and far more fueled by the realization that everything I am is everything that I hate in them.