uninspiring

It is easy, and therefore uninspiring, to love within the norms of acceptance and society. Other than ones own heart, there is no great risk involved; it's all very status quo. The same is tired, but what's outside-the-norm is captivating and gets under people__ skin, pushing their buttons, making them think and revealing their depth as a person, or their lack thereof. It's love against obstacles that inspires the most _ a love that faces and ultimately endures through challenges, hardship and ridicule that is courageous and triumphant.

In fact, some people who rate very high marks on the ego-based indexes of success are the ones I find most difficult to be around__nd totally uninspiring