Drishti Bablani

Many will notice the change in your attitude, and make judgements, call you names _ arrogant, Ill tempered. But only a select few will see beyond and notice the hurt, pain, rejection that triggered the anger, and activated your defence in the form of changed attitude. And of these few who notice, barely exceptional ones, will care enough to act and see their contribution to your pain _ apologise or take corrective actions, to help your heart heal.To find someone who understands your emotions so well and does not define you by your outbursts or your temper, but instead sees the factors that trigger those reactions in you, even when they are at the receiving end, is nothing less than a miracle.

We often look for kindness back in the same place we gave it, and mostly that is where we go wrong.Kindness does not work that way, you put your kind deeds into the universe and the universe reflects back that energy into your life, from unexpected avenues at most appropriate times.

We often look for kindness back in the same place we gave it, and mostly that is where we go wrong. Kindness does not work that way, you put your kind deeds into the universe and the universe reflects back that energy into your life, from unexpected avenues at most appropriate times.

Never Kill your What Ifs,But first be Grateful for What Is.

In essence the journey to wisdom is a study of self,The conscious, sub-conscious and unconscious self.

You never lose Friends.Real ones will always stay - no matter whatand the fakes, you don't need anyways.

Trust is believing "I will be safe with you". Love is striving to keep the trust.

When a bad experience shakes your faith in humanity, hold those depressing thoughts and ask yourself. 1. How many things in life have you achieved Without anyone__ help ? I can almost guarantee none. The help may be in terms of an action, an advise, direction or mere presence. 2. How many times has someone just come in from nowhere in your time of need and said or done just what you needed at that moment.Each one of us is an angel for someone. Let's be that angel more often.

Words are just words,Who they come from gives them Relevance,And this Relevance gives them the Power to Hurt you.Make those who Hurt you Irrelevant.

Understanding someone, is the sign of True Maturity,Forgiving them is that of True Wisdom.

Healing from a loss doesn't happen on schedule.You need to give the head and heart time to catch up with the reality.

Curiosity is often mistaken as Love,Since they both have the common elements of Interest and Passion

Intelligence is Attractive,Kindness is Heart Melting,But a combination of the two is Irresistible.

What makes someone irresistible,is not their looks, but the way they can make your mind tickle,your heart race and your soul smile, all at once.

Before you commit to loving someone,make effort to understand their heart,make effort to understand their soul,be open to seeing even their darkestcorners, without prejudice.If you have understood, accepted andloved their heart and soul, you will love them just as they are without ever wanting to change them.

It's the gravity of love that makes you fall,and it's the same force that builds you up.

A relationship is a risk that your heart takes and your mind supports. Remember this enough so that when the risk unveils itself, it does not tear you apart. Forget it enough so that you can enjoy the beauty it brings today.

Listening isn't just about being quiet. It's about listening to what is said, what is unsaid, and what is meant with your eyes, ears and heart.