drishti-bablani

Many will notice the change in your attitude, and make judgements, call you names _ arrogant, Ill tempered. But only a select few will see beyond and notice the hurt, pain, rejection that triggered the anger, and activated your defence in the form of changed attitude. And of these few who notice, barely exceptional ones, will care enough to act and see their contribution to your pain _ apologise or take corrective actions, to help your heart heal.To find someone who understands your emotions so well and does not define you by your outbursts or your temper, but instead sees the factors that trigger those reactions in you, even when they are at the receiving end, is nothing less than a miracle.

We often look for kindness back in the same place we gave it, and mostly that is where we go wrong.Kindness does not work that way, you put your kind deeds into the universe and the universe reflects back that energy into your life, from unexpected avenues at most appropriate times.

In essence the journey to wisdom is a study of self,The conscious, sub-conscious and unconscious self.

Trust is believing "I will be safe with you". Love is striving to keep the trust.

Understanding someone, is the sign of True Maturity,Forgiving them is that of True Wisdom.

Healing from a loss doesn't happen on schedule.You need to give the head and heart time to catch up with the reality.

What makes someone irresistible,is not their looks, but the way they can make your mind tickle,your heart race and your soul smile, all at once.

Before you commit to loving someone,make effort to understand their heart,make effort to understand their soul,be open to seeing even their darkestcorners, without prejudice.If you have understood, accepted andloved their heart and soul, you will love them just as they are without ever wanting to change them.

It's the gravity of love that makes you fall,and it's the same force that builds you up.

Listening isn't just about being quiet. It's about listening to what is said, what is unsaid, and what is meant with your eyes, ears and heart.

Tears are not a mark of weakness.They just prove that your heart is alive.

Self Respect " respects boundaries, yours or other's."Ego" is so full of self, it sees no boundaries.

Hope because the universe hears you.Hope because the universe works for you.Hope because the universe speaks to you.Hope because the universe will finish what it began in you.

Yes, I value emotions deeply.Call me sensitive, call me weak, call me outdated, call me anything you may, but tell me the truth, can you deny emotions give life to life. If Emotions are an integral part of Being Human,why do people suppress feeling them ?Does the bruising scare them ? Than I wonder who is weak ?

Emotions are some merciless attention seekers you know.You ignore them they destroy you.

It's not your imperfections that make you attractive,it's your honesty about them that does.