dating

Do you know how hard it is to paint kindness?_ She leaned her hip against a desk in the corner of the room, still watching me. __t__ the only part of a person I really want to capture. Everything else seems to get lost in layers of deception or defensiveness. But not kindness. You can__ hide it. And people either are or they aren__.

A man of worth is a man that sees the worth in others more than himself.

There will never be a good time, financially, to get married, unless you're Shaq or Ray Romano. But somehow people manage. If your man is using money as an excuse not to marry you, it's your relationship that's insecure, not his bank account.

Im looking for a girl who's fun to be around.

Everyone isn't going to embrace your value, but that doesn't mean you need to go and change your price.

Adeline was really rather charming, she always had a man in her life, but it never worked out: either they were nice but she didn't find them very exciting; or they were exciting but she didn't find them particularly nice, or they were neither nice nor exciting and she wondered why she was with them at all. She found a way of making the exciting men nicer and that was by leaving them. But then, they weren't exciting anymore either.

But I tended not to date men who ever showed up for me.

All those men who end up disappointing you. After a while, you don't even want to have feelings anymore. You just want to get on with your life.

It wasn__ because you weren__ beautiful, talented, funny, creative or had everything in common. It was because some men prefer plain vanilla ice cream. It__ predictable and a safe choice. Confident and adventurous men prefer the complexity and layers of a sundae, even the ones sprinkled with a little bit of nuts on top.

Don't get mad about the infestation of fleas if you keep shopping at the dog pound.

I never know what I__ going to want to curl up in bed with._ I shrug.__ow about a man?_ she retorts.

To buy women things, some men entertain. To entertain women, some men buy things.

Generally, men prefer dating women they love over women who love them; women prefer the opposite.

Stop looking for your better half! You need to be whole to attract your better whole, if you expect to have a flourishing relationship.

Her date was pleasant enough, but she knew that if her life was a movie this guy would be buried in the credits as something like "Second Tall Man".

In his experience with women, it was difficult to recover once things began to go wrong--once they had unreasonably decided that you were a person with whom they were not under any circumstances ever going to have sex.

To some women, a job plays the role of a man. To most women, a man plays the role of a job.

God knows both your name and address. When the right man comes along God will lead him to your door. And that man will recognize your name.